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Sweet 15 Birthday - and how to make it a fun time

Now that you are in high school you have a new set of challenges to deal with every day. Today's teen has different challenges to deal with than their parents did when they were growing up, no matter where they lived. Life can be very stressful for you at this time when you are making your transition from a young girl to a young woman.  Or you can stop and think about youself  and understand only you can determine your future. You have the choice to be your own person and make the best choices for yourself. Or you can follow the crowd and let the leader of the crowd make choices for you.

  • It's most important for you to communicate with your parents or guardian whatever challenges you are concerned about.
  • If you can't communicate with your parents or guardian you must find an adult who you can trust to commmunicate with.
  • We all need to feel we are loved and belong. Just like a puppy dog who is always looking for affection. People need  to feel loved and  be accepted also.
  • The meaning of the Quinceanera Celebration should be your major focus as you are preparing for your special day.
  • As a young woman you are now responsible for your own decisions. Yes, your parents are probably having trouble adjusting to your new role, but you need to show them that you are ready to make the best choices for yourself.
  • You will have to work at getting more freedom, because your parents worry about you. Their worrying is because they love you. It's not they don't trust you. It's just that life today has many different challenges. 
  • It's a good idea to take a course in self defense. Check with your couselor at school or your gym teacher where you could take a course. Maybe you could get a group of girls together and find a teacher who would teach the group self defense. You will feel greater self-empowerment in every situation and your parents or guardian will worry less about your safety.
  • It's a good idea to start to think about what kind of education you want after high school. My book: Quinceanera Connection: Your Dream Celebration On Any Budget, contains a section - 'Girl Talk'. It's filled with a tips, a roadmap and guide on how to plan your life after high school.
  • Your Quinceanera Celebration will be more meaningful after your party is over if you have started to plan for your new role as a young woman with new responsibilities in your own life.

In summary: it's very important to find an adult you trust and respect to be your mentor. Whether it's your parent, teacher, relative or friend of the family. You need to have an adult in your life, who will listen to you without judgement.  An adult  who is a good role model and cares about you. A person who wants you to have a good quality of life. A life with a purpose. A life filled with happiness, peace, harmony, good health, love and abundance.

  • Start today planning on your own life as you are planning for your Quinceanera. You will then be the Princess the day of your celebration and every other day of your life.
  • You desere your best life possible. Why not make it happen. You can do it.